Am I Doing This Right? Lessons On Fatherhood From Great Dads

Any success I’ve had in daddom is greatly attributable to a couple of fantastic dads in my life — my old man and my father-in-law.

Follow These Simple Rules For A Perfect Father’s Day

All that’s needed for this one day for dad are a few costless behavioral changes.

Good News: Dads Are Spending More Time With Their Kids

More fathers spending more time at home will presumably lead to safer, kinder children growing up with brighter prospects.

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Parents of young children who both work full-time do indeed make us richer as a nation, but that doesn’t mean the result is a net positive.

15 Father’s Day Gifts That Won’t Just Clutter The Garage

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Squires: In BLM's utopia, black men are donors, not husbands and dads



A recent article from the Washington Post took readers into the lives of several black women hoping to become mothers. But this was not a feel-good story about newlyweds preparing for their bundles of joy while managing the challenges of starting a life together. This story was about the shortage of black male sperm donors across the country and the intense competition among black women for thier limited supply. Some women went as far as to use apps that allowed them to bypass the health and safety regulations of cryobanks.

The picture this story paints is the final piece in the Black Lives Matter master plan for black men. The organization’s “Black Families” and “Black Villages” principles did not use the words “man,” “father,” or “husband” a single time. In BLM’s utopia, black men are donors, not husbands and dads. When your “racial justice” movement is created by lesbians who want to disrupt the nuclear family, men are valued for their sperm and little else.

The Washington Post captured this sentiment perfectly while describing one woman who broke up with her girlfriend prior to giving birth to her daughter.

"She wants Zurie to have a sibling and hopes to purchase more vials from the same donor. 'There’s so many good African American men out there,' Brooks said. 'Maybe they just don’t know how much they’re needed to create families.'”

This phenomenon should not surprise anyone. The radical feminists who use the term “black bodies” ad nauseum are honest about their worldview. To them, black men are most valuable for three things: votes that help the left obtain political power, corpses that generate economic benefits for black women, and their seed to create life.

What was so frustrating about the Washington Post profile is how casually it wrote black men out of their families. These men barely even sounded human, similar to how women are devalued when gay couples seek out eggs and a womb to create designer babies to satisfy their desire for children. One woman, described as a “single lesbian,” subscribed to a donor app called “Just a Baby” and was matched with a married father of four near her home. What follows next is the dystopian future of American family life on full display.

“A couple of months later, the two met at a restaurant, went to a hotel and used a DIY at-home insemination kit. After the first attempt didn’t work, they used the insemination kit and had sex the next month to increase the chance of pregnancy.”

In two sentences we see family dysfunction on two levels – infidelity and intentional fatherlessness – that will likely have ramifications for future generations.

This is the natural result of prioritizing adult desires above the needs of children. No person has a right to a child he or she cannot produce naturally. If such a right existed, someone would be obligated to provide the child or genetic material to make the child. But children do have a basic right – the love, support, affection, and attention of the two people who created them. Fathers and mothers have an obligation to their children, and their duties are best carried out when they are involved in a loving, monogamous marriage.

Everyone acknowledges that life often fails to reflect this ideal and that intact families do not guarantee desirable social outcomes. The same holds true for anything that has been designed. Regular maintenance on your car doesn’t guarantee it never breaks down, but using cooking oil instead of motor oil will cause additional problems on top of the ones every driver already has to face.

If human beings are simply stardust – the result of cosmic activity billions of years ago – then the Washington Post profile is simply another point on the long arc of evolutionary development.

But if we are created beings, made by a designer and shaped with purpose, then this story is a signal of trouble on the horizon. We have gone so far to undermine God’s design for the family that we have convinced ourselves that there is only one thing that should restrain human desires: possibility.

“If it can be done, then it should” is the governing principle for our culture, but we cannot get around God’s design for human sexuality and procreation. The women who said, “I don’t need a man,” whether due to sexual preference or career aspirations, are realizing that the denial of biology has a built-in shelf life. The laws of nature are not social constructs.

In a world where human desire can quickly morph into idolatry, children become ornaments whose primary purpose is the comfort, security, affirmation, and self-actualization of adults. This explains why teachers use their classrooms to reveal their new gender identities as well as why men are taking pictures in hospital beds after babies are born.

There is nothing that will make you more selfless than having a child, and the first act of self-sacrifice involves the adults who created the child. Societies increase opportunities for human flourishing when they align with God’s design for family, but they increase the odds of human suffering when they don’t.

The author of the Washington Post story thought she was writing a sympathetic profile about the challenges facing black women, but in reality, the real victims in this story are the children being created with no regard for their need for paternal love.

I hope the paper allows black men to issue a response. I think it should be entitled “I Am More Than a Sperm Donor.”

Burger King employee received a crummy goodie bag for working 27 years without missing a day, then David Spade stepped up big time



A Burger King employee has worked at the fast-food restaurant for 27 years and never missed a day. In recognition of his hard work, the management company rewarded the worker with a lousy goodie bag. However, comedian David Spade stepped up to give the hard worker a much more suitable gift.

Kevin Ford, 54, works as a cook and cashier at the Burger King in the Las Vegas McCarran International Airport in Nevada. Ford was given a gift bag by HMS Host – a company that operates restaurants in airports.

For working 27 years without missing a single day, the company rewarded Ford with a single movie ticket, a Starbucks cup, two packs of Lifesavers candy, a bag of Reese's Pieces, two pens, and other trinkets.

Despite the severely lackluster gifts, Ford was very appreciative of the gesture.

A video of Ford accepting the crummy goodie bag went viral this week. Many viewers remarked on how grateful Ford was while accepting the uninspiring gifts.

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Ford's daughter noticed that people were interested in giving her father a more rewarding gift for his hard work, so she launched a GoFundMe campaign.

"Hi, My name is Seryna. The man in that video is my father. He has worked at his job for 27 years and yes, he has never missed a day of work," Seryna Ford wrote on the crowdfunding website.

"He originally began working at this job as a single father when he gained custody of me and my older sister 27 years ago," she explained. "Then as our family grew and he remarried, he continue to work here because of the amazing health insurance That was provided through this employer because it was unionized. Which got all four of his daughters through high school and college with full healthcare coverage."

The daughter noted that they are not expecting any money, but said that her father would love to visit his grandchildren in Texas.

The GoFundMe campaign caught the eyes of many – including David Spade.

Spade made a donation of $5,000 to Ford after hearing his story. However, Ford was not sure if it was the real David Spade. Then Ford received a message on Instagram, according to TMZ.

"Keep up the good work. 27 years," Spade wrote to Ford.

Ford was blown away that the Hollywood celebrity contacted him, "HOLY S**T Dude!!! Cannot Believe This!!!"

The Burger King employee exclaimed, "THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! For Even Watching the Video! I Love You My Brother!!! Much Love and God Bless. ... I think [I] might be able to take a day off."

Spade replied, "Wait till year 30."

Ford joked, "Damn, are you one of my managers???"

Burger King issued a statement regarding the viral video, "The Burger King brand and its many franchisees nationwide are committed to recognizing and celebrating the achievements of the thousands of people serving across a wide range of roles — all dedicated to providing our guests a world-class experience."

"Following review with this location's franchisee, we've learned that this video depicts a Team Member in receipt of a peer-to-peer reward in recognition of a short-term positive performance/experience," Burger King told People magazine. "The franchisee offers its Team Members a robust employee recognition program, which includes the recognition of tenure milestones and monetary awards."

In an interview with YouTube personality Sierra Nicole, the gracious Ford thanked everyone for the support.

"I just want to say thanks to everybody out there. It's just so overwhelming," Ford said. "I'm just Kevin, you know. I just love everybody. I think that it probably touched people because I think we as humans, period, just need love and gratitude. And when you see someone like that, you know, ... I was happy to get anything. Some people got nothing, so I was just happy to get anything."

At the time of publication, the GoFundMe campaign had raised more than $63,000. He told TMZ that he may use the money to buy a new hybrid vehicle so that he can visit his daughters and grandchildren in Texas.

Tony Dungy Is Right: Troubled Kids Don’t Just Need Better Schools — They Need Fathers

The children we are attempting to educate are an extension of their original educational environment: their families.

Whitlock: ‘Dads on Duty’ at a Louisiana high school show America needs a MANdate



Men are the vaccine. An injection of masculine, male energy can improve every problem plaguing America. We can flatten the curve overnight.

Southwood High School in Louisiana took the jab earlier this month. After three straight days of on-campus violence and 23 students arrested, a group of 40 fathers injected themselves into the school. The violence stopped the day "Dads on Duty" started walking the hallways and greeting students as they entered the building.

CBS Evening News spotlighted the dads on Friday in a two-minute story. The story spread virally throughout the weekend. Even on masculinity-hostile Twitter, the story was well received. It has 61,000 retweets, 160,000 likes, and more than 10 million views.

The CBS story made no mention of the race of the dads. I respect the decision. In such a short story, it would be difficult to unpack the significance of the race of the fathers. But if you watch the video, the dads appear to be all or at least predominantly black.

Statistics show that black kids are denied the male energy vaccine at a substantially higher rate than all other racial groups. More than 70 percent of black kids are born to unwed parents. Just think what would happen if corporate media focused on the importance of the male energy vaccine as much as it focuses on the COVID vaccine. Young people have a 99.9 percent chance of surviving COVID-19. Surviving without their dads in the homes? The outcomes are catastrophic. You're far more likely to end up in jail, drop out of school, suffer depression, experience sexual assault, produce out-of-wedlock kids, join a gang, etc.

America needs a vaccine MANdate.

There are no negative side effects to men responsibly doing the job they were assigned — shepherding and discipling young people and families. Male energy passed clinical trials thousands of years ago. The Old Testament of the Bible says male energy achieved approval from the FDA — Father Dad Association — in the book of Genesis.

What would a MANdate look like?

The government should penalize and tax corporate media, Hollywood, and the music industry for promoting the lie that the world would be a better place without men. The federal government should find ways to financially reward men for answering a call to duty. Let's give men stimulus checks for joining "Dads on Duty" rather than handing people money for sitting at home.

The nonstop promotion of a matriarchal culture is the anti-vax movement. Feminist leaders are vaccine deniers. YouTube should be removing and demonetizing videos that contain misinformation about the necessary role of men in healthy societies.

Let's stop the lies.

Men are not perfect. But society will not be improved by diminishing our responsibilities and roles. The key to improving society is making men live up to their responsibilities and play the role designed by God.

Let's say some of you reading this column are nonbelievers. Even as an atheist, surely you understand the importance of male leadership, masculinity, and strength? Surely you realize there's a difference between biological men and biological women?

This isn't an argument about superiority. It's an argument about capacity, roles, and responsibility. Women weren't going to build the Panama Canal. Men did. Men died and suffered doing it.

Black boys are dying and suffering in America because they're being denied the male energy vaccine. They're growing up in a culture dominated by the matriarchy. The black matriarchy has been placed on an improper pedestal.

Corporate media is trying to convince us that Stacey Abrams is the modern-day Martin Luther King Jr. Her voter drives are going to take us to the promised land. A vote is more important than a father in the home. No one with an ounce of common sense and an elementary understanding of history believes any of it.

You can't sustain a prosperous neighborhood, city, state, country, or school system without intact families led by dads and moms.

Corporate media spends hours upon hours talking about the responsibility of police officers to protect and serve the people in their communities. CBS gave us two minutes on dads. Two minutes focused on 40 men volunteering to protect and serve the kids in their community.

We got two minutes on the blackcine. The public is thirsty for a conversation about the responsibilities of men and fathers. That's why the CBS video went viral.

The primary police officers of young people should be mom and dad. It's their role to be Officer Friendly. Moms and dads have to patrol homes, neighborhoods, and schools. One officer has been derelict in his duty: dads. That's why I love the name "Dads on Duty."

The mainstream media and the BLM-LGBTQ-CRT Alphabet Mafia want to convince you the government should be our daddy and that America would be a much better place if we ingested more feminine energy and empowered the matriarchy.

Our failing schools are overrun by women and the matriarchy. There's no respect for authority. Schools are drowning in emotion and misguided aggression. A small handful of men showed up at a school in Louisiana and flattened the curve with their mere presence.

A MANdate is all that's necessary to fix America.

Study: Dads have distinct, special role in helping kids weather adolescence, grow into mature adults



It has long been understood that fathers play an incredibly important role in the lives of their children. Involved fathers are said to have a direct impact on the social and emotional well-being of their children and often significantly influence their measure of future success.

But in recent years — as support for traditional family structures has diminished and progressive ideology has attempted to downplay the valuable differences between men and women — a healthy respect for fatherhood has been denigrated.

A recent study by researchers at Penn State University, however, has rediscovered the distinctive role that fathers play in raising healthy, mature children.

The study found specifically that closeness with fathers serves a distinctive role in helping children weather the turbulent years of adolescence by positively affecting the self-esteem, weight management, and prevalence of depressive symptoms in both girls and boys, the Penn State report said.

Anna Hochgraf, a doctoral candidate in human development and family studies at the university, who led the research project, noted that while emotionally close relationships with both fathers and mothers had positive effects on children, fathers had a broader influence.

"Adolescents tend to feel emotionally closer to their mothers than to their fathers and mothers tend to have supportive conversations with their children more frequently than fathers do," Hochgraf said. "This may make emotional closeness with fathers more salient and, in turn, protective against these common adjustment problems experienced during adolescence."

To come up with the results, researchers recruited 388 adolescents from 202 two-parent families with both fathers and mothers and gathered data at three checkpoints between the time participants were 12 and 20 years old. At the checkpoints, researchers inquired about participants' weight concerns, symptoms of depression, and self-esteem, and measured the intimacy between parents and their kids.

The method allowed researchers to analyze the distinctive effects of relationships between children and each of their parents at different times during adolescence. They found that results varied:

  • For example, the study found that "father-youth intimacy was associated with fewer weight concerns across most of adolescence for girls and boys, and mother-youth intimacy was associated with boys' but not girls' weight concerns, and only in early adolescence."
  • "Father-youth intimacy was associated with fewer depressive symptoms for boys and girls across most of adolescence, whereas mother-youth intimacy was associated with fewer depressive symptoms in mid-adolescence," researchers said.
  • "Finally, father-youth intimacy was associated with higher self-esteem from early through mid-adolescence for boys and girls, whereas mother-youth intimacy was associated with higher self-esteem across most of adolescence for girls [but only] during early and late adolescence for boys," they added.
Researchers said the study highlights the special role fathers play in raising children and underscores the importance, generally, of parents establishing emotionally close relationships with their children.
The National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, National Institute on Drug Abuse of the National Institutes of Health, and the Prevention and Methodology Training Program helped support the study, Penn State reported.