The sexual revolution enslaved us — here's how we break free



The sexual revolution promised liberation and fulfillment. Women were told that casting off sexual restraint would bring empowerment. But now, decades downstream from its launch, the promises ring hollow.

Unbridled sex isn’t delivering freedom — it’s deepening bondage.

Pornography and casual sex will never satisfy. But grace is available for those who believed the lies.

As it turns out, human beings are more than pleasure machines wired through the nerve endings of our genitals. We are more than dopamine-driven robots. We are embodied souls — created by God, endowed with dignity, purpose, and the need for boundaries.

Yet our culture’s sexualization continues at breakneck speed.

Access to pornography has never been easier. Research suggests that 30% to 65% of teenagers have been exposed to online porn — most accidentally. A report from Brigham Young University found that roughly 12% of all websites host pornographic content.

Meanwhile, the rise and normalization of platforms like OnlyFans showcase and glamorize pornography, rebranding prostitution as “sex work” — the new socially acceptable euphemism. These online “stars” feed the demand of 305 million users, racking up over $10 billion in gross transactions — pun very much intended.

But the shine is fading — and not just among traditional critics.

The data is clear

A recent article titled “The Delusion of Porn’s Harmlessness” in the New York Times offers a revealing glimpse. The author, while careful to avoid “sex shaming,” couldn’t ignore the harms. She described the rise of “porn-trained behaviors” among Gen Z: Choking, slapping, and spitting during sex. These are learned behaviors.

An entire generation has been catechized by the tutor of the porn industry. A report indicated that 79% of teens who have watched pornography believed it has helped them learn how to have sex. When porn forms our instincts, abuse masquerades as desire.

As our culture drifts farther from monogamy, covenant, intimacy, and the procreation purpose of sex, we find ourselves increasingly fragmented and sexually broken.

The harm is real

One of the most disturbing and revealing illustrations of this trend came from a social media stunt by Lily Phillips, a young woman who makes her living on OnlyFans. She recorded herself sleeping with 100 men in a single day — for content. What followed was not a celebration and definitely not empowerment, but a sobering breakdown.

She cried. She described feeling “robotic,” disconnected, and hollow. She was shattered.

Her tears trace back to a root far deeper than fatigue or regret. They point to the soul’s protest. We were not made for sex severed from love, trust, and covenant. Humans are not just sex-driven beasts. We are made in the image of God. We are body and soul, inseparably bound.

Sex is profoundly spiritual. Though it occurs in the flesh, it reaches into the soul. It doesn’t simply join us physically to the other person, but spiritually as well (1 Corinthians 6:16). When we transgress God’s design, we don’t just sin with our bodies — we entangle our souls in shame and bondage that can’t be numbed or ignored.

This is why sexual sin wounds us in ways others sins often do not.

The apostle Paul warned in Romans 1:18 that sinners “suppress the truth in unrighteousness.” That’s what’s happening. We push down truth to avoid reckoning with its demands on us. We’d rather bury the guilt, ignore the shame, and pretend everything’s fine.

Lily Phillips, despite her tears, hasn’t rejected the lies of the sexual revolution. She’s still clinging to them, even as they leave her in pieces. There are many like her.

The truth is freedom

Unfortunately, those lies continue to spread. For decades, the cultural narrative has insisted that the church is sexually repressive and anti-sex. Why? Because it poses a threat to the prevailing narrative.

But data paints a different picture. In fact, regular churchgoers report the most frequent and satisfying sex lives in America. Sex within the covenant of marriage — between a man and a woman — isn’t just moral. It’s joyful. It’s free from guilt and shame. It’s good. Maybe that’s why church-attending married couples are having more sex.

There is a better way than the world offers. It’s not repression of our sexual desires — it’s redirection. It’s not shame — it’s sanctity.

As Christians, we must resist the temptations surrounding us on every screen and scroll. We must see how broken the porn industry is — and how broken it makes those who produce and consume it. Pornography and casual sex will never satisfy. But grace is available for those who believed the lies. Forgiveness is offered. Healing is possible. Through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ, there is restoration — for the consumer and the creator alike.

The sexual revolution promised the world liberation — but left us groaning as slaves. Only Christ breaks the chains.

Is adult film star Bonnie Blue sending a pro-life message?



OnlyFans “influencer” Bonnie Blue rose to fame after sleeping with over 1,000 men in a single day — and she doesn’t seem fazed by it one bit.

“The big 1,000 was completely done,” Blue happily said in a video posted to social media while clad in a robe. “The room was absolutely full. Then we did groups of five, like one after the other of fives. I wanted to give people more time, so then it went down to, like, one-on-ones.”

“So, like, one person would watch whilst I was with somebody, and then it would literally just be like a rotating circle,” she continued.

And Bonnie Blue might have even more news.


“There’s good news, everybody,” Stu Burguiere of “Stu Does America” says. “You’re going to be surprised to hear, if you took health class in eighth grade, that experience of having 1,000 different men inside of her may have — we don’t know for sure because we don’t know when this happened — but may have resulted in a pregnancy.”

“In just eight months' time, I am so excited to do the world’s biggest livestream of a birth,” Blue said in another video uploaded to social media.

“Now, look, I don’t think a lot of people want to see her have sex with 1,000 men. I think it sounds pretty icky. But I assure you, no one wants to watch a livestream of the birth. That’s not a thing,” Stu comments.

But it’s not just the potential for a livestream that bothers Stu.

“We’re talking about an obviously horrible way to build a family, and I don’t even know how big that family would be. Would you have 1,000 different dads? Would you go on Maury Povich and maybe try to figure out who the dad was? That would be highly rated, I suppose,” he says.

“It’s a horrible way to conceive a child, a horrible way to go through this. This is — you’re going to be surprised to hear — not really all that biblical. It’s not the path to a nuclear family that most people would design,” he continues.

“That being said, that child still deserves a chance to live. Even a baby conceived in these bizarre and ridiculous circumstances still has value,” he says, adding, “In a very strange, roundabout way, she should be commended, and has a heck of a lot more moral fortitude than a lot of women who go and abort their child and end their lives for no good freaking reason.”

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Russell Brand's bold message for OnlyFans star who slept with 100 men in single day



New Christian Russell Brand is sharing a message of hope for Lily Phillips.

Phillips, a 23-year-old British woman, recently completed a stunt in which she had sex with 100 different men in 24 hours. The degrading act became the subject of a YouTube documentary, which went viral this month and sparked a debate about the failure of liberal, postmodern sexual ethics.

'Jesus loves Lily Phillips.'

After playing a clip from the documentary in which Phillips admitted she dissociated during the stunt — suggesting that she knew it was a traumatic experience — Brand shared a personal message in which he implored Phillips to stop looking for fulfillment in sex and online attention.

Instead, Brand urged Phillips — and everyone — to look for love in the right place: Jesus Christ.

"Lily Phillips, I can relate," Brand said. "I've not done exactly that or even those numbers, but I know what it's like to commodify sex and to look to sex for some kind of fulfillment and to use the energy of sex as some kind of commodity."

"Sometimes what I think it is is an attempt to defibrillate divinity down here on the lower levels and the lower planes. Think about how often in scripture it talks about sexual sins and Christ being the bridegroom and us [the church] being like the bride," he continued.

"I would pray that all of us that have looked for love in the wrong places are able to find what it is we're truly looking for," Brand went on to say. "Dignity, sanctity, and sacred love with one another, rather than making everything profane, everything a game, everything a like and a click and a lick."

In the end, Brand urged people to "love one another" and to "forgive one another."

"There's a way home for all of us, and by individually changing, we can change our culture to something beautiful and look for the kind of conjugation and connection that we're all really looking for," he said.

Meanwhile, Brand wrote on X, "Jesus loves Lily Phillips."

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It's true that Jesus loves Phillips, and it's true that Jesus associated himself with people that polite society had shunned, including prostitutes.

But Jesus didn't simply "hang out" with such people as if he excused their sin. The Gospels, in fact, show Jesus confronting sin, urging repentance, and offering to the contrite new life in the kingdom of God. Most important: Jesus transformed and redeemed sinners. He did not leave them in the destruction of their sin, but he invited them to find true life in him.

Jesus even declared in one famous teaching, recorded in Matthew 21:

Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you [the religious leaders].For John [the Baptizer] came to you to show you the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes did. And even after you saw this, you did not repent and believe him.

This radical statement gives hope to everyone, including Phillips. If we repent from our sin and follow Jesus, he will save us.

It is important, meanwhile, to observe how Phillips' stunt exposes the failure of liberal sexual ethics.

"This tragedy, I suggest, is illuminating," observed James Wood, a professor at Redeemer University.

"It is a symbolic reductio ad absurdum exposing the limits of such a consent-centered, choice-maximizing morality," he explained. "Such a framework lacks the categories to account for the deep darkness involved in such acts, the damage they bring upon oneself and society, and the multifarious forms of failure involved."

Fortunately for Phillips, you, and me, there is no deep darkness that the grace and power of Jesus Christ cannot overcome. The tomb, indeed, is empty.

Biblical truth outshines feminist fiction in Lily Phillips’ OnlyFans stunt



The reaction to the OnlyFans model who recently slept with 100 men in a single day is a needed reminder that feminist propaganda is no match for biblical truth. Lily Phillips is the 23-year-old British woman who recently filmed herself having sex with dozens of strangers and posted it to her OnlyFans page. But the YouTube documentary about her stunt sparked intense reaction online when it was released in early December.

Despite decades of feminists trying to convince the public that women should — and can — have sex just like men, I didn’t see a single think piece claiming Phillips as an exemplar of sex positivity. In fact, several female commentators wanted to shift attention to the men who participated in Lily’s experiment.

Lily Phillips decided to play with fire and is feeling the burn right now. Let’s hope she will come to her senses before she is completely consumed.

This didn’t surprise me one bit. Many women want every “privilege” they associate with being a man — except being responsible for their actions. Yes, Phillips was visibly shaken after having sex with 100 men in a day, but she was no victim. She came up with the idea, recruited the men, and posted her activity on her OnlyFans page.

If Andrew Tate said he wanted to sleep with 100 women in a day, no one would have a problem criticizing him for being a sex-crazed degenerate. To make things worse, Lily Phillips is now planning to have sex with 1,000 men in early 2025 in an attempt to break a world record.

The women whose first impulse was to criticize the men who participated in Phillips’ self-degradation were tacitly acknowledging that attempts to reclaim the word “slut” and declarations that “sex work is work” are lies. Despite decades of social conditioning meant to convince us that men and women are identical sexual beings, deep down they believe those men should have protected Lily from herself.

They are right. I would be ashamed of my sons if they walked into a room with condoms strewn on the floor to participate in something so degrading, but the men who participated didn’t show their faces or allow their real voices to be broadcast.

Lily is the person trying to become famous for selling sex, and the physical consequences of her actions are likely the least of her worries. She already admitted feeling a sense of shame over her chosen “career” path. She will likely find it hard to find a decent man willing to marry her. Many people will hear her confessions and think they are a sign that society needs to become more tolerant and accepting. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

The revulsion people feel when reading Lily’s story — and the conflicted emotions she expressed in the documentary — are signs of a conscience that has not been completely destroyed.

On a personal level, the news really is bad for Lily Phillips. She sounded like a woman whose soul died in that room.

Thankfully, Christians are made spiritually alive through Jesus. As it says in John 3:16, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” This is the good news that she needs to hear.

Some people claim to believe in God but think Christ’s atonement for sin only covers the minor, private sins. When it comes to strippers, prostitutes, fornicators, adulterers, or homosexuals, they assume some people are too far gone for God to save.

The apostle Paul certainly wasn’t one of these people. After rattling off a list of sins that keep people in spiritual bondage, he utters six of the most important words in the Bible: “And such were some of you.” Lily Phillips hasn’t done anything in front of a camera for money that disqualifies her from receiving the forgiveness God promises to every person who turns from sin to follow Jesus Christ.

The responses to Lily Phillips were not just a repudiation of second-wave feminism. They were also a useful reminder that atheism can attempt to explain the origins of human life but has no answer for the source of human worth. If humans are simply evolved creatures who make their own choices and define their own reality, nothing would justify the reactions provoked by a woman having sex with 100 men in a day.

People who truly believe Lily Phillips and the men who subscribe to her content are no more than apes with agency wouldn’t assign any moral value to what they are doing. They would nod in agreement when she refers to herself as a feminist and explains her decision to profit from the men sexualizing her.

But Christians who believe men and women are made in the image of God know that dignity and worth come from our creator — not our bank accounts or subscriber counts. They know that sex creates a powerful connection between a man and a woman, which is why it’s meant for a husband and wife within a marriage covenant.

A flame can warm a home when it’s contained in a fireplace but will destroy a house if it escapes its proper place. In the same way, sex creates a sense of security and closeness when enjoyed within marriage but leads to a very different set of emotions outside that context. Lily Phillips decided to play with fire and is feeling the burn right now. Let’s hope she will come to her senses before she is completely consumed.

A message for the OnlyFans star who met her goal to sleep with 101 men in a single day



Before 23-year-old Lily Phillips became an OnlyFans model, she used to think sex was sacred. She even wanted to wait for marriage.

But college and dating changed all of that. Then when being an OnlyFans model proved lucrative, her promiscuity morphed into something that can only be described as heartbreaking.

Philips recently set a goal for herself to sleep with more than 100 men in a single day for shock value and to prove just how unspecial sex is.

While Phillips met her goal by sleeping with 101 men in a 24-hour period, the documentary she released in the aftermath paints the picture not of a young woman who achieved her goal but that of a broken girl who is hurting as a result of her self-objectification.

Allie Beth Stuckey has a message for Lily.


First, she plays a clip from Phillips’ documentary that has gone mega viral on X, garnering over 190 million views.

In the clip, Phillips, fighting back tears, says, “It’s not for the weak girls, if I’m honest. It was hard. I don’t know if I’d recommend it. ... It’s kind of like being a prostitute.”

“Like more intense than you thought it might [be]?” the interviewer asked.

“Defintely,” Phillips responded, before walking out of the room to avoid sobbing on camera.

Allie explains that this emotional response from Phillips is proof that sex is not purely recreational, nor is it purely an act of the physical body.

“She knows, as much as she wants to deny it, that sex is different. Sex is not just any kind of interaction; sex is intimate in not only the physical sense but the emotional and the spiritual sense,” she says, noting that much of Phillips' grief stems from how she “disregards her own value and her own body.”

“She thinks of herself not only as an object but an object in which 100 men who were basically unvetted could use and abuse as they see fit,” she adds, explaining the selection process Lily used, which did not include a background check and didn’t take measures to fully protect against STIs.

Despite the sadness Lily felt in the aftermath of her conquest, she has since announced that she plans to sleep with 1,000 men in a day this January.

While it might be easy to turn away in disgust and write Lily off as a lost cause, that’s not the Christ-like response.

“You were made by a God who loves you and who cares about you and who cares what happens to you. He cares how you're treated, he cares how you are viewed, and he views you as precious — as made in his image. You have a soul, you have a heart, you have innate value,” Allie tells Lily.

Even if the day comes when Lily regrets her choices and feels that she is irredeemable, Allie says, “You are not too far gone. You are not outside of God’s grace. You haven’t done too much. You’re not too dirty.”

“God's grace covers every kind of sin, every kind of depravity, every kind of mistake, and if you want a new self, if you want a new start ... then you can find that in Jesus Christ.”

To hear more of Allie’s commentary and the tragic details of Lily’s story, watch the episode above.

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