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The New York Times Magazine published a long profile on what it's like for a group of 20 people in Massachusetts engaged in 'ethical nonmonogamy.' It's just as insane as it sounds.

Legalization Of Polygamy Was Always The Logical Consequence Of Obergefell

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Slippery slope: New York City judge argues the 'time has arrived' to legally recognize polyamory relationships



A recent decision in New York City's eviction court has come down squarely in favor of recognizing legal rights for polyamorous relationships.

Trial court Judge Karen May Bacdayan concluded in the case of West 49th St., LLC v. O’Neill that polyamorous relationships are entitled to the same sort of legal protections extended to two-person relationships.

The case involves three men and a dispute with an apartment building company. Scott Anderson and Markyus O'Neill lived together in a New York City Apartment. Anderson held the lease and was married to another man, Robert Romano, who lived at a different address. After Anderson died, the apartment building company argued that O'Neill did not have a right to renew the lease because he was just Anderson's "roommate." But O'Neill contends he was a "non-traditional family member" who should have the right to renew the lease.

Bacdayan held that there needs to be a hearing to determine whether Anderson had a polyamorous relationship with the other men.

The judge referred to a previous landmark decision by the New York State Court of Apeals, Braschi v. Stahl Assocs. Co., which in 1989 recognized that two-person, same-sex relationships were entitled to legal recognition.

"Braschi is widely regarded as a catalyst for the legal challenges and changes that ensued," Bacdayan wrote in her opinion. "By the end of 2014, gay marriage was legal in 35 states through either legislation or state court action. Obergefell v Hodges (2015), the seminal Supreme Court decision that established same-sex marriage as a constitutional right, was also heralded as groundbreaking."

"However, Braschi and its progeny and Obergefell limit their holdings to two-person relationships," she added. "The instant case presents the distinct and complex issue of significant multi-person relationships."

Bacdayan suggested that the plurality in Braschi only extended legal protections to same-sex couples with "normal familial characteristics" to avoid going "too far." But she questioned why the law should not go further.

“Why then," the judged asked, "except for the very real possibility of implicit majoritarian animus, is the limitation of two persons inserted into the definition of a family-like relationship for the purposes of receiving the same protections from eviction accorded to legally formalized or blood relationships?" Is ‘two’ a ‘code word’ for monogamy? Why does a person have to be committed to one other person in only certain prescribed ways in order to enjoy stability in housing after the departure of a loved one?”

She went on to say that "the Braschi court's referral to 'normal familial activities' reveals an intent to limit the application of noneviction protections to someone who can demonstrate a traditional marriage but for their sexual orientation." Though in 1989 the Braschi decision was called "a radical leap," Bacdayan ruled that ultimately it was "rooted in traditional ideology."

"However, what was 'normal' or 'nontraditional' in 1989 is not a barometer for what is normal or nontraditional now," Bacdayan wrote. "Indeed, the definition of 'family' has morphed considerably since 1989."

Citing the decriminalization of polygamy in Utah, the recognition of polyamorous domestic partners by Sommerville and Cambridge, Massachusetts, and laws that acknowledge a child can have more than two legal parents, Bacdayan said the "broadening recognition" of polyamorous relationships" "begs the question" of why a man who claims to have been involved in a same-sex throuple should not qualify for the legal protections of New York City's rent control laws "under a more inclusive interpretation of a family."

"In sum, the problem with Braschi and Obergefell is that they recognize only two-person relationships," the judge wrote. "Those decisions, while revolutionary, still adhered to the majoritarian, societal view that only two people can have a family-like relationship; that only people who are 'committed' in a way defined by certain traditional factors qualify for protection from 'one of the harshest decrees known to the law—eviction from one's home.'"

"Those decisions," she added, "open the door for consideration of other relational constructs; and, perhaps, the time has arrived."

'Queer' TikTok user proudly describes her 'polyamorous relationship' involving 8 people — including her spouse, girlfriend, and partner of undetermined gender



Anna, a self-described "queer" woman, said in a viral TikTok video that she's in a "polyamorous relationship" involving eight people in total, including her spouse, girlfriend, and a third partner of undetermined gender.

Her video, which was posted in early May, has received about 1.2 million views as of Wednesday afternoon.

What are the details?

Anna kicked things off by defining a "polyamorous relationship," noting that people usually define it as involving three people. However, she noted that's merely one kind of polyamorous relationship.

In fact, she called her eight-member polyamorous relationship a "poly-cule or constellation — because it looks like a molecule or constellation" — and then cut to clips of the names of the people in her polyamorous relationship written on notecards and tacked to a board and connected with yarn.

First, Anna said she's married to Jake. But Anna added that she's also dating Spencer — the individual of yet-to-be-determined gender — as well as Ellie, a new relationship partner for Anna.

Things get more complicated when Anna introduces Izzy, who's Ellie's "platonic life partner," which means the two of them "plan on spending the rest of their lives together without any sex or romance involved."

The plot thickens when we learn Izzy also is "casually seeing" Spencer. (Remember Spencer, the individual of yet-to-be-determined gender who's also dating Anna? How could you forget?)

Going back to Jake, Anna's spouse, we soon learn he's also dating a person named Rocket — who somehow uses "He/They" pronouns. Anna added that Rocket also is in a long-term relationship with "his girlfriend" as well as a "queer platonic relationship" with yet another partner.

Got it? No? Well, here's the clip:

How are folks reacting to the video?

A cursory look at the initial batch of the video's nearly 2,200 comments seems to indicate viewers generally support the complicated polyamorous relationship.

But Libs of TikTok posted the clip, too — and reactions from Twitter users are a bit less charitable:

  • "It’s called you are all swingers. It’s nothing new; you’re just trying to sound important. And also, no thanks!" one commenter wrote.
  • "Sodom and Gomorrah is happening," another user said.
  • "Imagine storming the beaches of Normandy only to have your granddaughter become this lady," another commenter quipped.
  • "We have defined deviance down so far that people either think this is healthy behavior or are at least afraid to criticize it," another user observed. "We have destroyed many of the key rules that once helped maintain a healthy society."

Oh, and there was this gem: "So your math question of the day: Anna goes to see new Downton Abbey movie on date night. The movie tickets cost $12.50. How much does Anna spend?"

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